15 Things You Go Through When Your Best Friend Is Best Friends With Someone Else As Well

There are a few relationships that are special. It is rare to come across someone who is as weird as you are, who knows when to say what and will always make you smile, no matter what. Best friends hold a special place in our lives, even if you have only one. However, when you become best friends with someone, you do want to be their best friend as well. Even if you are, you don’t want anyone else to be their best friend and that is when things get messed up. Here are a few things you go through when your best friend is best friends with someone else as well:

#1. Sometimes, they cancel plans with you in order to spend time with them since they need someone around. Oh, how you hate it. 

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#2. You often get jealous of the other person and you do very little to hide it. 

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#3. Sometimes, you look at the other best friend and try to think about all the ways in which you are better than them. 

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#4. You also question what your best friend sees in them anyway since they are the most annoying person together. 

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#5. Your worst nightmare is finding out that your best friend has a great night or had fun with them through their Snapchat and other social media accounts. 

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#6. You then continuously wonder if you lack something or if you are suddenly not enough for your best friend. 

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#7. If your best friend tells you a secret that is about them, you have a very strong urge to tell that secret to everyone else. You don’t because you are a good person. 

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#8. Whenever your best friend tries to make plans with both of you, you always cancel because anything is better than third wheeling with your own best friend.

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#9. Constantly over thinking, you tend to start getting super clingy to your best friend. You know it’s annoying but you don’t know what else to do. 

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#10. You always want to be present wherever your best friend is so that you get to be a part of all their stories. 

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#11. You’ve even considered talking to others about this but then you don’t because you respect the relationship you share with your best friend.

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#12. You want to scream when your best friend has an inside joke with the other person. 

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#13. It feels like they are hanging out all the time while you sit at home, bored out of your mind. 

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#14. However, deep down you know that what you share with your best friend is unique so you wait it out and be there for your best friend, no matter what. 

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#15. Eventually, you talk to your best friend about how you feel because you know that they are the only one who will understand you.

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Yatri Ajabia

Yatri is an Associate Editor at Youth Connect. A Bibliophile, a traveler and a foodie, she loves coffee, books and cooking. Her love for literature and writing and acting keeps her high. She loves meeting new people and has this dream of knowing their stories. She wants to be an author someday. A die-hard Harry Potter fan and a film addict, she loves learning and teaching kids.


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